If you're an AA female and the only guys that you happen to date are white, then it shouldn't be all that surprising that you encounter countless guys with Asian fetishes. It's going to happen.
This is where I think a significant percentage of Asian women who act like they're disgusted when they meet guys with "Yellow Fever" have it all wrong. As much as some non-Asian (white) guys have this fetish for Asian women, the same can be said for vice versa. Its all explained in this post I found on Craigslist shown below.
I didn't write it but I agree with about 90% of it. He should've added Esther Ku and Michelle Malkin to this list of "MEDIA REPRESENTATION/ROLE MODELS".
Dummy’s Guide to Asian Girls with White FeverThe WHIGGIE (White Guy Groupie)
A brief profile of Asian girls afflicted with “White Fever”
ORIGINS: A subset of women of Asian ethnicity, usually found residing in major U.S. cities, although they have been known to appear overseas occasionally. Closely related to their cousins, Yellow Cabs (Japan), Gwei-Po’s (Hong Kong), Sarong Party girls (Singapore), Twinkies and Bananas.NOT TO BE CONUSED WITH: Intelligent, emotionally-secure women who are free of identity problems, self-hate, racial prejudice and chips on their shoulders.CHARACTER TRAITS
- Poorly developed self-identity. Pathetically insecure with themselves and their ethnicity.
- Resentment of father’s traditional, authoritarian upbringing (whether real or perceived).
- Brainwashed into believing that they, as AF’s, are more desirable than other women in exotic lotus blossom kinda way. Willingness to pander to western media sexual stereotypes of AF’s, which they perceive as marketing advantage.
- Thoroughly whitewashed. Desperate need to fit into “mainstream” (i.e. white) society and to distance themselves from their Asian heritage. Racial inferiority complex.
- Feigned air of superiority when dealing with members of own race and any other minority groups. In need of major attitude adjustments.
- Exaggerated, whiny, Encino-esque valley girl accent.
- Delusions of grandeur… “I want it all…and that begins with the right (i.e. white) guy…” Asian-American princess complex.
- Uncanny ability of determine one’s nationality, occupation, earning capacity and make of auto within three minutes of commencing a conversation.
- Exaggerated perception of white males’ value in increasing AF’s social status.
- Ignorant and narrow-minded, eager to adopt and perpetuate fallacious western media stereotypes of Asian men.
- A compulsion to trash Asians, particularly Asian men, in order to justify their autoracist tendencies, placate their guilt and bolster their self-esteem.
- Extremely shallow, self-centered, argumentative and boring.
- Disdains ethnic studies; regards it as a major threat to her carefully constructed, self-deceptive whiggie identity.
- Despises all Asian men, with the occasional exception of their brothers (after all, they share the same genes.
- Believes that racism does not exist because she, as an AF, has never experienced it first hand, or is too dense to realize it. Besides, those Asiaphiles are so nice to her (while plotting to get into her pants.
- Gets a warm fuzzy feeling when watching The Joy Luck Club, while snuggled up to her geeky Asiaphile boyfriend.
- Believes that the only reason an Asian person would disrespect her is because they are racist.
- Has lost count of how many WM’s she’s done this month.
- The wet-dream come true for socially-handicapped Caucasian nerds who are unable to attract Caucasian women.
- Threatened and insecure in the presence of any culturally-perceptive Asian person or any AM not fitting her stereotype of the quiet , marginalized, “model minority” geek.
- Fundamentally insecure, utterly confused, lacking in self respect.
- Many aging whiggies, after being used and abandoned by WM’s in favor of younger, more nubile whiggies and being rejected by AM’s who see through their transparency, develop a bitterness towards all men, period.
- Denial of all of the above.
FACIAL EXPRESSIONS: a) Look of contempt when eyes meet those of any non-white male, converting to beaming grin upon sighting of WM victim/target; b) terminal pout or c) bimboish expression that defies deep thought.
TYPICAL ATTIRE: Anything trendy, mainstream-looking and seductive (especially if it’s black and tight). Big hair (perhaps their most valuable asset) tossed with hand every 15 seconds. Wonderbra. Fanatical whiggies have been known to undergo certain procedures such as eyelid surgery, breast augmentation and vaginal tightening operations in order to increase their marketability to WM’s. Blue contact lenses and bleached blonde hair have even been sported on occasion. Note: Attire may vary depending on the specific type of WM being targeted.
I.Q: Too low to measure.
NATURAL HABITAT:
Personal ad columns (“exotic, slim, SAF seeks successful, generous SWM”), cheerleading squads, sorority houses (role: token “oriental sisters”), T.V. newsdesks, B-grade Kung-Fu flicks, trendy nightclubs (usually found necking with aging WM’s), Chinese restaurants (slumming with the WM and demonstrating that she’s “in touch with her heritage”), anywhere else frequented by White males.
TYPICAL WHIGGIE QUIPS:
Age 10: “Mom, why do we have to be (Chinese/Japanese/Korean)? Do you have to dress like that? And what’s with Dad and his accent?
Age 12: “Mom, I want an eyelid job for Christmas, okay?
Later on…
“I’ve always only dated white guys. I don’t know why, I just have.”
“Race doesn’t matter. I just happen to like white guys. It’s just a preference.”
“We are the world, we are the children…We…”
“I’ve gone out with all kinds of guys…Dutch, English, French, German, you name it. Even went out with a Jewish guy once! After all, love is color blind.”
“Eeeew, Jennifer, how could you go out with that (insert minority group here) guy!?” Totally gross!
“Oooh Roger, you’re like soooo strong and intelligent. Did you say you drive a beemer? Kewl! (giggle).”
“I want to learn English better…you maybe teach, handsome man? Are you U.S. citizen?” (Yes FOB’s can be whiggies too!)
“Like why would I want to go out with an Asian guy? They don’t own me or anything. Uhh, and besides they are all male chauvinist …and domineering too…yeah that’s it! Didn’t you see The Joy Luck Club?”
Like, I’m dating *out* of my race, so how can I be racists?!! Duh!!
CLOSELY RELATED TO: Racists, bigots, wannabes, ho’s, chameleons, white supremacists, a fish out of water.
MEDIA REPRESENTATION/ROLE MODELS: Connie Chung, Amy Tan, Lisa Ling, Margaret Cho, Sheryl Wu Dunn, any of The Joy Luck Club protagonists (except the one who married an Asian dude).
NATURAL COUNTERPARTS: Asiaphiles…who else?
Damn, that's quite the read. I bet it is very controversial as well.
ReplyDeletePretty spot on if you ask me. If I got a dollar for every time I heard one of those lines...damn...
ReplyDeleteIsn't Lisa Ling married to a Korean(?) man? I'm not American but I recall seeing her name before
ReplyDeleteI think this is spot on. And you hit the nail on the head...so often the very women who complain the loudest about yellow fever, are these pseudo-intellectual 'strong asian woman' feminist types, who have a clear pattern of dating mainly/solely NON asian men. Um, hypocritical much? To me it's just a very clever ploy, whether realized or subconscious: put all the focus on the men...that maybe THEY are dating HER because of racial stereotypes, and then no one will thikn to question HER and HER dating patterns.
ReplyDeleteWhile some men do indeed have a natural thing for asian women, I propose that a large number of them only developed the fever, because they know how many of the women have a thing for THEM. And who doesn't like to be desired, even IF it's for fetish reasons? Especially if you are a loser guy who can't get a date. Does it really matter then WHY the asian women might be intersted in you?
I once heard an asian woman say " I could NEVER date an asian guy, it's like dating your cousin" Who's the racist here?
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ReplyDeleteColumbia study on racial preferences in dating
In 2007 economist Ray Fisman, in a two-year study he co-authored on dating preferences among Columbia University students, did not find evidence of a general preference among white men for Asian women. Furthermore, the study found that there is a significantly higher pairing of white men with East Asian women simply because East Asian women discriminate racially against black and hispanic men. As quoted on Slate.com,[14] and also reported in The Washington Post and the Review of Economic Studies (a publication of the London School of Economics):
“ We found no evidence of the stereotype of a white male preference for East Asian women. However, we also found that East Asian women did not discriminate against white men (only against black and Hispanic men). As a result, the white man-Asian woman pairing was the most common form of interracial dating—but because of the women's neutrality, not the men's pronounced preference. Men don't seem to discriminate based on race when it comes to dating. A woman's race had no effect on the men's choices. ”
The study was carried out over two years and was conducted by economists Ray Fisman (lead researcher from Columbia University) and Emir Kamenica (University of Chicago), as well as psychologists Sheena Iyengar (Columbia University) and Itamar Simonson (Stanford). They took data from "thousands of decisions made by more than 400 daters from Columbia University's various graduate and professional schools."[14]
that post was spot on, but you forgot one other common trait of these AFs:
ReplyDeleteoften comes off as a pseudo-intellectual 'strong' asian woman feminist type, and will then complain about the supposedly rampant yellow fever, and all the while these women will only date NON asian men. I love it. Talk about hypocrisy.
and you're right....these women are the answer for all the loser guys out there who can't get a woman of their own race to date them. I mean, if the only women who show interest in you are asian women, wouldn't you too come to 'prefer them', if only because they make you feel better about your loser self?
I am the OP of the above mentioned posting on CL.
ReplyDeleteIm glad i brought a few laughs to all of you.
You sound like a bitter Asian man.
ReplyDeleteONLY Asian women throw themselves with so much enthusiasm at white men in such massive numbers. Its getting ridiculous. NO OTHER race of women in the world does this. You never see Westernised Black, Indian, Arab, Latina women preferring white men over their own men with so much vigour, and Indian, Arab men are stereotyped far worse than Asian men (Terrorist supporters, oppressors of women, they smell etc). Asian women are by far the most disloyal, perfidious group of women in the world.
ReplyDeleteI've seen so many of my fellow Asian brothers have their confidence and self esteem destroyed by seeing so many Asian women say "i only date white men", "Asian men aren't good enough", "Asian men have small penises" etc. Even worse, when women say Asian men 'don't have enough confidence in dating' it only rubs salt in our wounds when we don't even have the support of our OWN women.
Asian women date/marry non-Asians in massive numbers (just look at census data) and this is still rising tremendously, whilst Asian men are not doing the same. Simple maths tells you that's a shitload of single, dateless, bachelor Asian males out there (some estimate at more than (600 000!), and this is a very, very depressing and sad situation for the Asian male.
It's time to stop being so politically correct and afraid to speak out. Most of these Asian women claim they are just being 'open minded' and that Asian men are 'racist' and 'oppressive' if we don't accept this situation that is in their favor. We are not, and it is O.K to be upset or angry at this situation, because we are the ONLY race of people in world experiencing this problem and it is bullshit.
Do i get upset when i see so many Asian women with white men? Yes. And i have every right too. Because these women are openly and consciously ignoring and excluding Asian men from their dating pool and are most likely also believing that Asian men are inferior. When we have so many Asian women not willing to date us and prefering white men, i know that makes the Asian male dating world a very disturbing, and dark place to be.
Around 50% of Asian American women marry non-Asian men. Some studies estimate more Asian women live with White boyfriends than Asian boyfriends. This is truely a horrendous crisis for the dating life of the Asian male, and a serious blow to Asian male masculinity.
ReplyDeleteThe Asian American 'community' itself has de-generated into a massive farce of epic proportions. My belief is the 'community' itself no longer exists, when 50% of its females have decided to abandon it.
The Asian American 'community' is now a cock-fest. Way too much dick, and far not enough Vagina. It's essentially now just a dramatic oversupply of Asian males fighting for the scraps, with half its females gone.
Unless you are gay, non-sexual, or prefer the company of men, there is no reason left whatsover to support the farce that is the Asian American 'community'. Not even its women support it anymore, so why the fuck should we men.
When those 50% of Asian American females decide to abandon us, they also decide to tell the world they are leaving because Asian men have tiny penises, are short, nerdy, feminine, unsociable, and are too low on the social/career heirarchy.
Everyone knows the stereotypes, and we can thank our Asian female 'sisters' for starting, and re-inforcing them to the world non stop. Thank you very fucking much.
A 'community' whose women deliberately choose to humiliate and embarass Asian men to the rest of the world are not worthy of the attention, or the respect of the Asian male. It's time for Asian men to move onto greener pastures and let this tragic joke of a 'community' die once and for all.
It's pretty ironic, cause East-Asians (Chinese, Japanese, Korean etc) always look down on Indians, Arabs, Latinos etc, yet our communities are suffering from far more seriously fucked up shit that is literally un-heard of in those communities. We shouldn't be throwing stones when we live in the most fragile glass house of them all.
ReplyDeleteIndian and Arab guys have to put up with far worse, racist, bullshit stereotypes in the media than us, yet from my 36 years of living in Western countries, almost 99% of American born, westernised, secular females from those groups prefer to date and marry their own men, even when they could have chosen white guys. Over a period of more than 35 years, i've seen it all.
The most idiotic posts to read are the 'deniers' and 'headbagger' East Asian guys who stick their heads up their ass to ignore the truth and put on a charade of deluded macho-ism by saying the AF/WM problem "Doesn't bother them at all", or for some insane reason is "positive" for Asian guys. Most of them will accuse the Asian guys standing up against the injustice “insecure, jealous whiners” and “loser bitter Asian guys” (the same dictatorial tactics used by AF to crush AM dissent and silence AMs questioning the situation) in a bizarre attempt to censor legitimate opinions and issues. It then descends into hilarious, tragic comedy when they then try playing internet tough guy claiming they are smooth Romeos and Casanovas with ALL races women, and have 'no problem' dating every color of women in the rainbow. Yeah, i really believe your 'stories' Mr internet bullshit artist......
Sure, East Asians are probably richer than those other ethnics groups on average, but who gives a rats ass when dating, love, family, relationships, and loyalty are so fucked up in our world.
Don't ever give any one the power to do anything to you...just never give up..an never surrender....there is always someone out there for you...whether your beautiful or sexyugly...please don't waste your life on this crap..just live and enjoy your life...being rejected is good as well..it will only make you love and appreciate your love more intensely when you find her...you will find her, as long as you never give up...to all..from a white guy.
ReplyDeleteIt's mostly Jewish guys that have this fetish. "White" guys tend to prefer white women.
ReplyDeleteI get really annoyed when they label us bitter when speaking of this issue. They don't realize how profoundly disturbing it is and how destructive it can be to everyone. I'm not against interracial dating or marriages but this behavior is more rampant with Asian women than any other women of any other race. I'm excluding white men for a reason because I know deep down, they could care less what race they are as long as its female and can carry a conversation. I know white guys will try to downplay it but please we can all see right through you. You're just as lonely as anyone else.
ReplyDeletelet's not leave out hispanics. from the surface they can pass for white depending on the lightness of skin color but they too date and marry whites at huge numbers.
ReplyDeletebut no one really notices because hispanics make up a very large portion of the population and can integrate into mainstream with more ease than blacks or asians
white guys swarm at asian girls in droves. they want them because its "easy" and to their mentality, they 'take less work to obtain' its this type of mentality that raises the egos of asian girls who in return prefer whites because they want mixed children. having an asian child isn't good enough for them, they want a master mixed race offspring LOL
ReplyDeleteasian male.. dates asian girls.
ReplyDeleteNoodle kitchen appliances that reject their own are better off with white men, fuck'em..
We def don't love them slant ho's
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ReplyDeleteTrying to bridge the data gap, Hahm and fellow colleagues from Boston University School of Social Work and School of Public Health, examined the population-based survey, the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health (Add Health). "We wanted to know what proportion of Asian American youth ever had an STD, how those young adults with an STD differed from those without, and what factors were associated with an STD diagnosis."
Over the course the study, Hahm unmasked some myths common about Asian Americans. She said, "There's a perception that Asian Americans in particular aren't practicing sexually risky behaviors. But we found that Asian American young women are at risk of high STDs. For instance, Asian American women had a higher prevalence of STDs than White women in both 1995 (10.4% vs. 7.7) and 2001 (13.5% vs. 8.3%). The incidence of STDs (not diagnosed with STDs in 1995, but developed STIs in 2001) among Asian American women was also higher than that of White women."
Moreover, the power dynamic between genders became immediately clear. Asian American women were four times more likely to have a STD than their male counterparts. "This was shocking," said Hahm, "It was so much higher than the males."
Accounting for the gender disparity, Hahm suggested that again, culture may be playing a critical role. "Condom use is hard in a culture where women are raised to be accommodating and polite." She stated, "Asian and Pacific Islander women also have broader interracial dating patterns than Asian American men. This might explain why these women are exposed to higher rates of STDs."
Particularly troublesome to Hahm is the impending population boom of Asian Americans. "Forty years from now, Asian Americans are projected to be 11 percent of the national population. That could be a huge number of STD cases, in addition to related infections such as HIV/AIDS. It's a potential disaster for public health. We need to understand the problem and create an intervention that works for these communities."
Hahm's latest research proposal to the National Institute of Mental Health attempts to bridge this gap by examining health risk behaviors specifically in Vietnamese, Chinese and Korean populations. In addition to observing their sexual risk behaviors and substance use patterns, she hopes that her work will help educate social workers and other health practitioners.
"Sexual risk behaviors are socially constructed behaviors," she said, "and these behaviors can be quite different between countries of origin."
I am a blue eyed blond WM, I think asian women are cute. But I have never gone after one. I have never really thought about what I have heard called "asian fever".
ReplyDeleteI have taken a lot of martial arts, some of the guys stated Korean women are a pain. The ones in my class were younger and cute.
The lady that owns my corner dry cleaner is a doll. She drives a cool Benz. But I bet that she is tough as nails. LOL
I have flirted at the local International-Asian market. I like all women, but blue eyed blonds are my favorite.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
/NoVa-DC east coast
hen.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asian_fetish
ReplyDeleteColumbia study on racial preferences in dating
In 2007 economist Ray Fisman, in a two-year study he co-authored on dating preferences among Columbia University students, did not find evidence of a general preference among white men for Asian women. Furthermore, the study found that there is a significantly higher pairing of white men with East Asian women simply because East Asian women discriminate racially against black and hispanic men. As quoted on Slate.com,[14] and also reported in The Washington Post and the Review of Economic Studies (a publication of the London School of Economics):
“ We found no evidence of the stereotype of a white male preference for East Asian women. However, we also found that East Asian women did not discriminate against white men (only against black and Hispanic men). As a result, the white man-Asian woman pairing was the most common form of interracial dating—but because of the women's neutrality, not the men's pronounced preference. Men don't seem to discriminate based on race when it comes to dating. A woman's race had no effect on the men's choices. ”
The study was carried out over two years and was conducted by economists Ray Fisman (lead researcher from Columbia University) and Emir Kamenica (University of Chicago), as well as psychologists Sheena Iyengar (Columbia University) and Itamar Simonson (Stanford). They took data from "thousands of decisions made by more than 400 daters from Columbia University's various graduate and professional schools."[14]
The whole 'mixed babies are better looking' bullshit is one of the most idiotic myths created by sell-out Asian females.
ReplyDeleteBUT, there is a fabulous irony to it, because nature and the system of genetics has a beautiful way of wiping out the idiots and fuckwits in our world, and those 'mixed baby' desiring Asian females will also eventually get what they deserve from nature.
You see, their 'cute half mixed' children will only last for ONE generation. Half white Asians usually also end up marrying white people, and so will their children, and so on. With each successive generation the 'Asian' part becomes less and less (50%,then 25%, then 12% etc) until their descendants eventually look 100% White. (Obamas Children for example are only 75% Black, yet they look 100% Black. I have also met people with an Asian grandmother (25% Asian) and you can hardly see any Asian features at all)
Within just TWO generations, the 'cute mixed looking children' will be NO MORE and all traces of the sell-out Asian female ancestor will be wiped clean from the family's gene pool. When her grand, and great grand children look almost 100% white, they aren't gonna give a fuck that one of their ancestors was Asian. Within just 75+ years, all physical trace of the Asian female is completely wiped out and forgotten.
So the next time you hear one of those sell-outs saying they want 'better looking mixed babies' because Asian men are inferior, remember, the joke is ultimately on them, because the efficiency of nature will ensure these fuckwits and their genes are extinguished and forgotten from this Earth.
I'm a white guy married to a white woman for 26 years,if there's an Asian male that want's her she yours!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteThe Asian women who say they will 'never date an Asian guy' are RACE TRAITORS, pure and simple. Let's skip the politically correct bullshit and just say it for what it really is, because it is a matter of FACT.
ReplyDeleteFor example, if i decide to throw away my U.S citizenship and fight for Al Qaeda in Afghanistan against the U.S military, I AM A TRAITOR to the United States. Plain and simple and I will be treated as such by the U.S authorities.
Conversely, if an Asian woman decides to disown and abandon Asian men and want nothing to do do with us, while at the same time spreading hateful anti-Asian male garbage in the media, internet (e.g we all have small penises, we can't satisfy women sexually, all nerds etc) to destroy the image of the Asian male, then they should be considered racist enemies of the Asian male, and should be treated as the traitors and sellouts they really are.
Who do you think started the whole 'Asian guys have small penises' stereotype? Not enough white women or gay non-Asian guys have dated Asian guys enough to start such a sweeping generalisation, and its doubtful straight White guys would care enough (seriously, if your truly straight why would you give a shit about other guys dicks?).
The only culprits left are, you guessed it, our 'loving' Asian female sisters. They are the ONLY group of people who would have an interest in spreading and re-inforcing such a stereotype, because it gives them a justification for dating white men.
KKK and white supremisists? Fuck, they are nothing. Self-hating sell-out Asian females have done infinitely more to destroy and damage the reputation, image, and status of Asian males than any white racist could have ever dreamed of.
The Asian women who say they will 'never date an Asian guy' are RACE TRAITORS, pure and simple. Let's skip the politically correct bullshit and just say it for what it really is, because it is a matter of FACT.
ReplyDeleteFor example, if i decide to throw away my U.S citizenship and fight for Al Qaeda in Afghanistan against the U.S military, I AM A TRAITOR to the United States. Plain and simple and I will be treated as such by the U.S authorities.
Conversely, if an Asian woman decides to disown and abandon Asian men and want nothing to do do with us, while at the same time spreading hateful anti-Asian male garbage in the media, internet (e.g we all have small penises, we can't satisfy women sexually, all nerds etc) to destroy the image of the Asian male, then they should be considered racist enemies of the Asian male, and should be treated as the traitors and sellouts they really are.
Who do you think started the whole 'Asian guys have small penises' stereotype? Not enough white women or gay non-Asian guys have dated Asian guys enough to start such a sweeping generalisation, and its doubtful straight White guys would care enough (seriously, if your truly straight why would you give a shit about other guys dicks?).
The only culprits left are, you guessed it, our 'loving' Asian female sisters. They are the ONLY group of people who would have an interest in spreading and re-inforcing such a stereotype, because it gives them a justification for dating white men.
KKK and white supremisists? Fuck, they are nothing. Self-hating sell-out Asian females have done infinitely more to destroy and damage the reputation, image, and status of Asian males than any white racist could have ever dreamed of.
The Asian women who say they will 'never date an Asian guy' are RACE TRAITORS, pure and simple. Let's skip the politically correct bullshit and just say it for what it really is, because it is a matter of FACT.
ReplyDeleteFor example, if i decide to throw away my U.S citizenship and fight for Al Qaeda in Afghanistan against the U.S military, I AM A TRAITOR to the United States. Plain and simple and I will be treated as such by the U.S authorities.
Conversely, if an Asian woman decides to disown and abandon Asian men and want nothing to do do with us, while at the same time spreading hateful anti-Asian male garbage in the media, internet (e.g we all have small penises, we can't satisfy women sexually, all nerds etc) to destroy the image of the Asian male, then they should be considered racist enemies of the Asian male, and should be treated as the traitors and sellouts they really are.
Who do you think started the whole 'Asian guys have small penises' stereotype? Not enough white women or gay non-Asian guys have dated Asian guys enough to start such a sweeping generalisation, and its doubtful straight White guys would care enough (seriously, if your truly straight why would you give a shit about other guys dicks?).
ReplyDeleteThe only culprits left are, you guessed it, our 'loving' Asian female sisters. They are the ONLY group of people who would have an interest in spreading and re-inforcing such a stereotype, because it gives them a justification for dating white men.
KKK and white supremisists? Fuck, they are nothing. Self-hating sell-out Asian females have done infinitely more to destroy and damage the reputation, image, and status of Asian males than any white racist could have ever dreamed of.
Who do you think started the whole 'Asian guys have small penises' stereotype? Not enough white women or gay non-Asian guys have dated Asian guys enough to start such a sweeping generalisation, and its doubtful straight White guys would care enough (seriously, if your truly straight why would you give a shit about other guys dicks?).
ReplyDeleteThe only culprits left are, you guessed it, our 'loving' Asian female sisters. They are the ONLY group of people who would have an interest in spreading and re-inforcing such a stereotype, because it gives them a justification for dating white men.
KKK and white supremisists? Fuck, they are nothing. Self-hating sell-out Asian females have done infinitely more to destroy and damage the reputation, image, and status of Asian males than any white racist could have ever dreamed of.
I have a question...
ReplyDeleteI'm a gay Asian male, and I prefer to date only white men (can't help it, seriously), so does that put me in the same category as those sellout Asian females?
lol
I think most Asian/white mixed children looks more Asian even second generation still looks more Asian, example John+kate+8 and some others.
ReplyDeleteThe Asian gene is very strong so it dominates the White and I don't think mixed Asian babies are that cute.
You can see them in cities like NYC and honestly most are not that attractive, so Asian and White are not a good mixed.
You can see how strong the Asian genetic is by looking at some people from Finland,Russia, even some with Blond hair/blue eyes still have the Asian/slant eyes,so the Asian gene is strong.
The only people losing in this are the Whites since their gene is usually wipe out even after 2 generations the Asian gene still dominate.
Hispanic/Latina is not race ,plus real Latin people are the Italians follow by the Spaniards/Spanish,French,Portuguese
I notice that Black/White sometimes create more European/White looking children in comparison to Asian/White mixed.Many of mixed Black children used to passed for Whites during early history in America.
I'm always curious to find out how these Asian women feels when their mixed children looks more Asians.It's almost like their self-hating plans failed and nature slap them in the face.
Asian women refuse to admit that they are the ones who have the White fever.I know some White men who have dated Asian women but guess what? they didn't not exclude non-Asian women but the Asian women they dated exclusively White men only white the White men date non-Asian women.
So the whole Yellow fever complaint from Asian women are just a cover for Asian women self hating,obsession with White men.I think it's a way for Asian women to feel wanted,desirable and in competition with White women.
The sad thing many Asian women go online pretending to be White men praising them.I don't hear White men praising Asian women so much in real life.
You can look at the Western media the White woman is still the standard beauty,from movies,magazines,ads etc...,Asian women are almost non-existent.
The sad thing is that Asian women don't realized that majority of the time is the unattractive,nerdy White man who settle for them.
These men who are usually bitter towards White women,don't you wonder why they are still angry/bitter towards White women,while they are with an Asian woman? well to me these men are not happy they settle for an Asian woman, so Asian women is the last resort for them.
If they were happy with their choice in Asian women,they wouldn't be so bitter towards White women.
The stereotypes White men give for dating Asian women are not flattering but Asian women don't care.
The stereotypes are of someone who is looking for a servant/maid,not a loving life partner. You rarely here/read these men say it's because Asian women are beautiful,attractive,smart intelligent etc....
I agree totally that its about mixed race babies. Asian females want a half breed (half white) child. its that simple.
ReplyDeletenine seven, if you had a clue, the only culprit for starting such a myth about penis size are black men. it all started with eddie murphy's stand up. which makes sense because that's all they have going for them, is penis size, since they can't compete in brain power and other more important aspects of life. no offense, homies
ReplyDeleteTo the Gay Asian:
ReplyDeleteYes you fall into the same category as a sellout because to date someone of your own race is like having to look in the mirror every morning and seeing what you don't like and wished you were anything but. I hope I didn't get too brutal there but I wonder how true this is.
It's never meant to be nice. It's meant to make a profit. However, Asians are the next big thing. Every race has trials and tribulations. Blacks took extensive measures to integrate into the mainstream and they had it the worse! Every race complains that they don't get represented enough. It's a messed up world we live in and in which it revolves around how they are "sold" into the mainstream media. The media is an important tool for defining popular culture and culture as a whole! Asians only make up less than 9 % of the whole population. For the mainstream movers and shakers, the only good thing to come out of Asians for marketing are electronics and Asian girls. Sad but true! It's not that the media mainstream hates Asians, they just don't think its a lucrative move to portray every facet of their existence in an equal manner. It is no different than any other advocates fighting for the right to be equally represented. They will have one or two token Asian girls to sell on their looks alone. This explains why you see more Asian women on tv because the mainstream will accept them as the neutral female who possess no real threat to other lead races such as whites or blacks. Blacks, who still battle for equality, have made huge strides in integrating mostly based on white guilt and the NAACP and the like, using those platforms to easily maneuver into lead roles.
ReplyDeleteI'm a white American that lives/works in Asia. When I first got here, I had no particular inclination towards or away from Asian girls. At first, I was mostly fucking Asian girls because, well, this is Asia and most girls in Asia are, in fact, Asian. Now, I admit I do like Asian girls more because of the mutual "exotic" ideas we have about each other. That adds to the equation. I still fuck white girls occasionally too, though, if the chance arises.
ReplyDeletew globalpolitician.com/2946-hispanic-latin-america-south-america
ReplyDeleteLatino & Hispanic? It’s Time to Rethink these Terms!
Michael Grande - 7/5/2005
The words Latino and Hispanic have been so carelessly thrown around, used to label individuals, taken advantage of by some of the popular media (ie: Latin Grammy’s, AOL Latino, and the Hispanic Heritage Awards), and even used by some unknowing people as a tool to define their heritage. Yet do we really know what these words mean?
There are over 25 countries where Spanish is either the official, or a commonly spoken language (including areas of the world that people don’t often associate with Spanish, like Andorra or the Philippines), and Spanish is the second most spoken language in the world. Additionally there are myriad regional dialects; some examples are the original Castilian Spanish of Spain (directly descended from the Latin language), Argentinean Spanish with its distinctive Italian flair, and Mexican Spanish with its characteristic blend of indigenous (Native American) words.
There is no “typical” skin color for Spanish speakers - they range from the lightest whites to Mediterranean breeds, from those of Indian (Native Central/South American and Caribbean) heritage to black. All of the Spanish-speaking countries have their own unique peoples and their own distinctive cultures – they cannot be broadly and irresponsibly categorized into a “Latino” grouping. It is entirely imprecise to use such broad, vague, inaccurate terminology to categorize people based upon their language (whatever dialect it may be). Oddly enough, the term “Latino(a)” is never (or rarely) used in the USA to refer to Western Europeans such as Spaniards and Italians, when in fact the original Latin cultures lie within Italy, Spain, Portugal, Romania, Andorra, and France. Furthermore, when students arrive at college or pick up a book on European history, they will find that the term Latin, when used to refer to a monolithic culture, will speak of the Ancient Roman society, which is contrary to the ambiguous terminology employed by American media.
The term Latin America first came into use in the late 1860’s and was used to describe the French presence in Mexico. This term was later shortened to refer to people from “Latin American” countries; thus solidifying the American misperception of the term. I have many Spanish-speaking friends, all of whom hail from different countries. My ex-college Professor is from Argentina and has almost nothing culturally in common with my friend from Mexico. As a matter of fact they too hate the use of the term Latino; they demand to be referred to according to their country of heritage, and rightly so!
ReplyDeleteFurthermore, the terms Latino and Hispanic have been irresponsibly used as a “minority labeling system.” I find this to be even more reckless because any and all racism boils down to that which it always has: color. Another of my friends hails from Chile and has red hair and blue eyes, but according to popular media, a job application, or a government form, she is Latina or Hispanic, two terms that she earnestly hates because they pay no credence to her unique culture. Somehow I don’t think she was the minority prototype that they were looking for, but possibly that’s because the terminology is so rampantly and incorrectly used. Racism is despicable in any form, but if these silly questions are still going to be asked on government forms and job applications then they should address that which is truly in question: race. Anyone who hails from Central/South America or the Caribbean who is dark-skinned is likely to be either in part or fully of Indian heritage. Instead of making tons of superfluous categories on forms, why not just leave two boxes: Native American (North/Central/South/Caribbean) and African American? The other day I heard someone say, “Did you know that Latinos constitute the second largest minority population in America?” I thought to myself, “This is ridiculous.” Nobody needs to be forced into an inappropriate minority mentality; how has American cultural ignorance become so pervasive? Who are the minorities? The indigenous (native) population or the mestizo (mixed) population? Who exactly does this refer to? It’s so confusing. I am 100% Italian American. I speak both Spanish and Italian fluently. Since Italy is the patriarch of the Latin Culture, am I a minority too? This has become a very perplexing issue indeed.
In Western Europe the term Latin(o)(a) is commonly used to refer the cultures of Italy, Spain, Portugal, Romania, and France. Additionally Europeans are shocked at how the term is used in America and who the term has been used to label. The term Latino(a) refers to the Latin culture, a culture that originally flourished in Italy during Roman times. It was during that time that the Romans spread the Latin language throughout Western Europe; the language then morphed into the modern Romance Languages such as Italian, Spanish, Portuguese, and French. In essence, the Italians are the original Latinos, and the only people who should be termed “Latino(a)” are those whose ancestry stems from Western Europe or those who have strong cultural ties to Latin Culture. Why would someone so irresponsibly refer to an indigenous Mexican as “Latino” when he has his own ancient, Pre-Columbian Heritage, ie: Aztec, or Mayan? Why would someone use the term to refer to someone of indigenous Peruvian heritage when he has his own Incan heritage? Why would someone label an indigenous-blooded Puerto Rican as “Latino” when his bloodline lies with the Borinquen Indians? People need to wake up and get educated on this issue. How many North Americans would like to be referred to as “Norths” or “Anglos” based upon our geographical location or our mother tongue? I for one, would not! The spread of such inaccurate terminology only helps to perpetuate myths that prevail in our society. Cultural ignorance seems to be a popular phenomenon in the U.S.A. Americans do not have the right to irresponsibly use terminology that attempts to alter history. We have the resources to become culturally educated; let’s use them and begin to express our heritage by country, not vague, “media and commerce friendly” generalities.
ReplyDeleteIf indeed we chose to speak of “Latinos,” using such a generalist quip, a quick reference term for all those who trace their roots to Latin America., then we should include the maternal Latin countries in that group: Italy, Spain, Portugal, even France. There is a pervasive Latin cultural flow that began in those countries and spread to Latin America. Latinos wouldn’t be “Latinoamericano” without the Europeans.
Since the word “Hispanic” originally came from Spain as an adjective for linguistic purposes and is derived from the Roman name for their prized province “Hispania,” I guess we should look at England’s Roman name – “Britannia.” It appears then, according to Hispanic rhetoric that all speakers of English, regardless of culture, race, ethnicity, or geography should be called “Britannic.” So from India to America – I guess I should now present the list of BRITANNICS…. I think you’ll begin to see for yourself just how silly the modern-day, American usage of the words Hispanic and Latino has become…
The English-speaking Countries:
• Antigua & Barbuda
• Australia
• Bahamas,The
• Bangladesh
• Barbados
• Belize
• Bermuda
• Botswana
• Brunei
• Cameroon
• Canada
• Cayman Islands
• Dominica
• Fiji
• Gambia,The
• Ghana
• Gibraltar
• India
• Ireland
• Jamaica
• Kenya
• Lesotho
• Liberia
• Malawi
• Malta
• Mauritius
• New Zealand
• Nigeria
• Pakistan
• Papua New Guinea
• Philippines
• Seychelles
• Sierra Leone
• South Africa
• Sri Lanka
• Swaziland
• Tanzania
• Trinidad and Tobago
• Uganda
• United Kingdom
• United States
• Zambia
• Zimbabwe
* Chart from:
Michael Grande is currently a graduate student of Literature and Culture. In addition to English, he also speaks Italian, Spanish, French and basic Latin. In the past, he's been published in Manchester Times.
I WILL SAY THIS: IM A BLACK MAN, IVE DATED EVERYTHING....AND AFTER COMING BACK TO THE EAST COAST FROM THE WEST.....ALL I SEE IS ASIANS WITH WHITE DUDES....WHERE DOES THIS IGNORANT SEPERATIST THINKING COME FROM? I GOT FRIENDS THAT ARE ASIAN....KOREAN AND CHINESE AND THEY ARE SAYING THE SAME THING........ITS WESTERN BRAINWASHING...
ReplyDeleteTHE NEW GAME IN AMERICA IS MAKING PEOLE FEEL INSECURE ABOUT HERITAGE, ANCESTORY AND HISTORY..... ASIAN CHICKS ARE DOING WHAT BLACK WOMEN HAVE BEEN DOING FOR A WHILE...AND THATS BEING COWARDS.
ALLOWING THE MEDIA TO SHOW THEM HOW TO DISRESPECT THE MEN OF THEIR LIVES...BROTHERS UNCLES FATHERS.....
THESE WOMEN WANT ALL THE EXCESSES OF THE WEST BECAUSE THEY ARE TIRED OF BEING OPPRESSED, BUT DONT REALIZE THEY ARE BEING TRICKED...
First , nice all caps comment relick , well done lad.
ReplyDeleteOk Jewish guy here.
This isn't really a comment on the blog , because I think its inaccurate . A small percentage of asian girls act like this.
I just wanted to give some advice to the asian guys on here , because they seem really sincere and I think its a problem for them. If you want an asian girl , you can have one , if half are with white guys , that leaves the other half for you . Go get them. If you see 30 attractive asian girls a day , hit on all 30 , let rejection be your friend , in the long run it will make you stronger. If you do this for a couple of days or even a week , im sure you can get 10 girls to give you their number. Don't label them as scraps , thats the same as you complain they do to you. A girl might be a 4 in the face , but when she takes off her clothes , shes probably got a hot boy , big brown nipples , nice skin whatever. So dont limit yourself. Now when you got your girl , this is probably the most important , don't just wine and dine her and treat her like shes virgin territory , when the time comes you got to go hard on her. Thats what she wants. Put it in her mouth , smack her face with it ,tell her to get on her back and touch her toes and give it to her.
Alternately you can date outside of your community.
Black girls get a bad rep , but in my experience they make
good girlfriends or even wives. They dont cheat usually
and they are used to being treated like dish rags by black guys
so they will be happy with your easy going practical asian nature.
oh yeah , and dont worry , not all white guys or black guys are
packing a 3rd leg. Just repeat as above go hard as a mfker and
you will be fine.
I must say this blog is filled with ignorant bigots and misogynists who are afraid of miscegenation. what is wrong with being attracted to members of a different race? and to the assholes who say asian mixed kids are not cute, GFY, i've seen some pretty mixed kids here in nyc, n.j, and few other states i've been to. now to asian males, why don't you guys date out of your race more? how come i hardly see asian guys with black women? hispanic women? white women? you tend to stick to your own, and keep to yourselves. you all need to get out more and start dating women of other cultures. this way it balances out the whole interracial dating pattern with asians. now to the black guy who got back from west coast, i don't know where you were in cali, but, last time i was there in san francisco and other parts of l.a, i saw quite a few asian chicks with non-asian men. this trend is happening in canada, and now europe too. i'm glad to see more asian women with mixed race kids, and i hope it continues:)
ReplyDeleteDear anonymous moron above, asian guys do try to date outside of their race but the reciprocation is not equal compared to the way asian women do. why? you can thank the whitewashed media for oppressing asian guys as desexualized geeks and villiains while sexualizing asian women to be the white man's sidekick. you see it everywhere on tv and in magazines. the media is very influential to people and it affects how people perceive others. non-asian women have the potential to be open minded to dating asian males if the perception is acceptable to do so.
ReplyDeleteOkay I agree that the media tends to give asian guys a bad rep, but guess what? Most women are willing the GET TO KNOW a guy. sure, being portrayed as geeks/feminine losers would probably hurt your chances in the beginning, but any woman should be willing to hang out and get to know a guy PERSONALLY instead of immediately boxing him into the media caricature. And if she isn't willing to do so? Why would you want that type of girl anyway?
DeleteAs for why there are more AF/WM couples, well frankly, this probably won't go over well with AMs, but most asian females are NOT conniving racists who desperately want hapa babies. Like most normal people, they actually take personality into consideration before race! Wow! No way, right!? The percentage of AFs who would absolutely never, ever date an AM is actually very small.
No one is arguing that Asian men can not get Asian women. We are the majority of dating and marrying each other. There is no threat of shortages of Asians. To think other wise is like saying that White men are hardly seen with White woman. Simply not true. The point is every race is in the majority of dating their own kind. The issue here is the blatant disregard of dating one's own kind due to serious identity issues and as RELICK pointed out, its about giving into the riches of the west and being "exploited" for submissive and sexual needs. That's a very good point. I believe that there is a group of Asian women, as with other women of all races, who give into this mentality that dating Whites elevates them above others.
ReplyDeleteAsian American female here. I do not think of myself as self hating nor do I date out of my race for "pretty" children. Most of these topics are repeatedly brought up on Craigslist's rant & raves board and most of them suck because a handful of very angry people repeat their misguided notions about why Asian women date out. I don't hate myself or my race. My preference would be to date and eventually marry an Asian man. The problem? I've been asked out by a handful of Asian men in my lifetime and hundreds of white guys. To date, I have said YES to every Asian guy with the cojones to ask me out if I was single then. I have said NO to the vast majority of white guys but yes to those who made the grade in personality, looks, humor and height. Got that? I raise my standards ridiculously when dating out and still have some to pick from. I see the different kinds of looks I get from other Asian guys on the street when I'm on dates with both Asian and non Asian guys. I get checked out by other Asian guys when I'm on a date with an Asian and I get the blank stare through or unveiled contempt when I'm with a white guy. Funny how that happens... so if I want to date more Asian guys I should keep stringing along someone who I've realized isn't compatible just because he's Asian? Doesn't that seem fucked up to anyone else?!?!?!?!
ReplyDeleteI've put up ads showing what I look like specifically asking for Asian guys and I get two hundred white guy responses and 3 Asian guys who are fresh off the boat and can't compose an intro message. Have tried dating sites with the same results. Guess what? White people are everywhere! Yes some have Yellow Fever (let me tell you how disturbing it is to run into a white guy's fetish porn collection of Japanese schoolgirl rapes after the 4th date... it's creepy as fuck) But I imagine they are just as frequent as the Asian girls who say they don't date in their race. Probably as common as 11" dicks. There are enough out there to keep the stories going but not enough to say everyone is guilty or even that a big percentage are...
On the topic of dick size- I've REALLY enjoyed every Asian one I've ever had. There was a Japanese surgeon in TX that had the perfect shaped one for great g spotting action...And 2 Chinese guys who should've fucked as many girls as possible to end all these myths about size. (Well one of them I had to break up with because he told me we were having too much sex and he wanted to slow it down to about once a month or so... that breakup had nothing to do with race and everything with sexual compatibility) Of the White ones I've seen, I'll admit more often than not, problems with fit. My only micropenis experience was a white guy and quite a few were long yes, but so long that sex just hurt and no girth which is what makes it pleasurable... So I remain convinced my Asian vagina was built for an Asian penis.
So the point of my little post here? Asian men, stop complaining and ask us out! You may get shot down, but man up and just do it! We Asian girls want to go out with you! We don't reject you nearly as often as we reject every other race!!! This whole dating game is just a numbers racket. The more girls you ask out the more you'll eventually go out with!!
Oh, yeah- I am guilty of opting out of dating Black and Hispanic men. Guilty, guilty, guilty. I never said I was an equal opp dater just one of those Asian girls people like to assume has a white fetish since the majority of guys I go out with happen to be white because the majority of guys who ask me out happen to be white. But I feel the hate just the same. :(
@Anonymous Asian-American female.
ReplyDeleteWe appreciate the support. I agree with you 100% and hope other Asian-American guys will seriously take your advice. Its simple and to the point.
Thanks.
It's pretty funny, although I am not sure why you spent so much time writing about them.
ReplyDeleteThe notion of hundreds of white dudes in ratio to 3 asian guys is ridiculous. If that were true, for example, white girls would be rejecting white men in huge numbers. But they are not. They are hit on by everything under the sun but yet, they as majority will stick to white men. Just an excuse by sellout asian girls to reject their own.
ReplyDeleteHAHA you are so right, I've said it for the last 4 years. Fuck these wack bitches. I make mine latina or white. Much more difficult to get but superior in everyway. The same guys that end up with these asian tarts are the same losers that were turned down by latinas and whites lol. Work it fellas and show them it can be done!
ReplyDeleteBlue_Here said...
ONLY Asian women throw themselves with so much enthusiasm at white men in such massive numbers. Its getting ridiculous. NO OTHER race of women in the world does this. You never see Westernised Black, Indian, Arab, Latina women preferring white men over their own men with so much vigour, and Indian, Arab men are stereotyped far worse than Asian men (Terrorist supporters, oppressors of women, they smell etc). Asian women are by far the most disloyal, perfidious group of women in the world.
folks this isn't so complicated
ReplyDeleteAsian lady's are so much more fun to....
you fill it in, pretty much everything is better
yellow fever, won't go back
Lol,
ReplyDeleteYou sound like an Asian girl fresh off the boat,aka FOB.
White “boys” with asian girlfriends
ReplyDeleteWhite men catch yellow fever on the way to Gayville.
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Lol,comments from site on the topic of Asian women with White men.
ReplyDeleteI'm not the original author.
Re: White "boys" with asian girlfriends
White men catch yellow fever on the way to Gayville.
I said it before. I will say it again!
White men catch yellow fever on the way to Gayville.
RE:
Is has been 19 years since i was in high school. All the boys who had dated asian girls are now openly homosexual.
...and the guys who still like asian? Well, they always seem a little fruity to me.
Lol,more comments
ReplyDeleteFrom the same site,
Let me try and be very succinct about this. Asian women are not lovely or attractive. There is nothing particularly attractive to a grown man about a woman with the body of an 11 year old white girl who looks like she has been hit with a frying pan.
Take your yellow fever somewhere else, thanks.
STORIES
ReplyDeleteForeign Men Boast About Sexual Conquests in China, Reactions
by Fauna on Sunday, October 30, 2011 439
chinasmackcom/2011/stories/foreign-men-boast-about-sexual-conquests-in-china-reactions.html
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A look at the “sexually blessed” life of laowai men in China
Chinese girls having loose pants when meeting laowai men has long been old news, but just how crazy has it become? I recently browsed a discussion forum of foreigners in China, and the forum inside about dating and relationships has basically become a list of foreign men showing off their “conquests”, everyone one after another sharing their own most recent “love affairs”. At a glance, a foreign man of 18 years old to 81 years old, regardless of physique and regardless of appearance, sleeping with tens of Chinese women over 1-2 years of staying in China is basically the average. If effort is made, even sleeping with 1-2 hundred Chinese women is an easy affair (this is referring to women who aren’t prostitutes). Many [of these women] are students, white-collar workers, Chinese women with character and looks. What more, not a penny is needed, with many Chinese women instead paying money for laowai to sleep with them, even taking them out to show them off to others, as if it gives them “face”. From Shanghai’s well-known laowai discussion forum (Shanghai Expat), [I've] excerpted several posts/comments of laowai males showing off their conquests.
Re: Rules on Taking Girls Home by superkim ? Wed Sep 21, 2011 3:59 pm
Back in 2003 I had a German friend who often went to Buddha Bar on Maoming Lu. One night he went there and:
#1) He quickly met a local girl – took her home and fcuked her. Kicked her out. Went back to the bar.
#2) Met a second local girl – took her home and fcuked her. Kicked her out. Went back to the bar.
#3) Met a third local girl – took her home and fcuked her. Kicked her out. Went to sleep.
True story. And probably not that unusual either. I have told some local ‘friends’ this story. They never believe me. They all claim that local girls are traditional and ‘good’. Cracks me up.
by chingiskhan ? Wed Sep 21, 2011 6:23 pm
I have hundreds of stories. I could go all night, so to speak! Friend of mine was having lunch at Carls Junior in Raffles one day with wait for it, his wife and one year old kid. Next table are 3 hot young students, around 20 years old. Wife takes kid to bathroom. Girl says to my friend “you are such a great father, I wish you were my father” then they exchange numbers before the wife comes back.
(I won’t go on with the rest of the story but later in the discussion thread, this laowai XX’s two of the three female students.)
by expatguy1 ? Fri Sep 23, 2011 10:46 am
I have had a great deal of sucess with the Married birds here. Most of them are so discusted by their worthless Chinese husbands they are easy targets. All they want is good sex, someone who showers regurarly and can last more than 2 minutes in the sack. I was recently with a housewife 2 weeks ago and she complained that her husband always came home trashed, wanted to have sex and blew his wad in nano seconds. Most time though we would just come home and pass out drunk. I have had countless housewives like this. Picking up single Chinese women is very easy as well. I Funny, when I Eat at the Y, most of them are like, OMG, where has this been all my life…, that keeps them comming back for more, as their worthless BF and husbands wont head south of the border…
by chingiskhan ? Wed Sep 21, 2011 5:58 pm
A friend and myself once took two girls home we met at a club. After I was done with my girl, she asked where my friend was and I pointed to his bedroom. She then went in to his room and shagged him. His girl just went home. I was really pissed he got to do both and I only got one. Then there’s the girl who slept with me and two of my friends (I was the last of the three of us) and thought we didn’t know. She didn’t expect we’d talk. But of course, we did.
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ReplyDeleteby jeffinflorida ? Tue Dec 16, 2008 4:34 pm
Here’s my dilemma: This is a true story but some names have been changed to protect the innocent…
About 5 days ago I was walking back to my home from the nearby village market where I brought a bag of oranges. Whilst this is not uncommon, a very attractive girl came up to say hello and asked me if I ever go dancing at a local club. I live in an area with 3 major universities and there are 30k+ students around so the village is always flooded with girls at all times of the day. It was about 1pm this day. She asked me where I was from and if I was a teacher at the school I was heading to and I said yes. I asked her where she was going and she said the internet cafe that we walked by. I said by and kept walking. I have had these random encounters many times, I’m sure we all do.”>
Fast forward. Friday night. My steady girlfriend of 8 months is i n her room, didn’t want to come over. I am HAPPILY playing Xbox in my room, laying on the couch. There’s a knock on the door. I put some pants on ( like to play Xbox in my Fruit of the Looms – and guess who is there! This attractive 22 year old girl. At my door.So I invite her in. She asks me if I want to go dancing. I say no, not tonight, I am playing Xbox. So she sits on my couch and we chat. Her English is ok. She’s a 3rd year student at my school, but not in my program. After about 1/2 hour I figure What The Hell, lets put some moves on her. Ok no kiss, bad sign… Hands up her shirt Good sign I ask her if its ok, she says yes. So the hands start to wander… Um the rack is nice and not fake…
One hour later we are in my bed! Oh baby baby…
Come 11 I kind of want her to leave so I can go back to Xbox… I was playing Call Of Duty World At War… Love to kill Nazis…
She says ok I will sleep here tonight. I say ok… Well guess what I had for breakfast the next morning… So she leaves later on the day. I have NO CLUE what her name is and don’t have her phone number but I gave her mine. I spend the day with my girlfriend, who is totally on the rag with her attitude… And go back home. The next day… A knock at my door! Guess who’s back! She comes over, spends the night yet again… This has gone on almost every night since I met her. She comes over, watches tv, eats, showers, does me, and either leaves or spends the night. After 5 days, I still don’t know her name or WHAT SHE WANTS. I am sure she has an angle, don’t they all? Does she want money? A Visa? Clothes? New phone? Don’t know yet. I can tell you she is attractive, loves to be held and cuddled, and sleeps 14 hours a day – when she is not watching tv. What to do? I have 2 girlfriends already… Wasn’t really looking for a third. Maybe I need to post this on a new thread…
The below post is excerpted from a post with a lot of replies on well-known Beijing discussion forum (The Beijinger). From it, the attitude laowai have towards Chinese women can be seen.
Why are Chinese girls so easy to…*you know*
Posted Aug 25, 2009 12:39pm by rhinox
Why are Chinese girls so easy to bang?
‘Should pretty much sum it all up. Beijing is like a PARADISE for guys. And I’m not talking about brothels/massage parlors or anything where you pay money. It’s like girls throw themselves at you at clubs, schools, bars, classes, etc, just to experience something “different”, “exotic” and “exciting”.I’ve gotten quite big-headed since arriving in China. I got action back in the States, but NOTHING like China. My Chinese isn’t even that good. Can you imagine a Chinese guy in the U.S. trying to pick up chicks with broken English?I’m by no means complaining, just wondering =P
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My comments: Having read some posts, and to make a rough estimate, I’ve discovered that nowadays the young girls in big cities like Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, if they’ve had some education, understand English, have relatively good looks and bodies, of those that have interacted with laowai men, 70% have slept with laowai (including many who are already married). Some laowai in Shanghai, Beijing, etc. as foreign teachers have slept with 80% of the girls who look decent in their classes (and what more, the majority are the girls paying for it). Those [foreigners] who are company executives don’t even need to be mentioned… Many Chinese women when looking for a Chinese boyfriend are picky, demanding house and car, but when it comes to finding a laowai they essentially become free sex toys, even believing that this is something that gives them a lot of “face”. Many laowai who come to China are actually broke and unable to make it in their own countries, many low-class construction workers (I know of a bald fatty who repaired roofs in America but after coming to China basically became a nightly groom [have sex every night]), and there’s one who is an American community college graduate who couldn’t find a job afterward that came to Shanghai to be a foreign teacher making several thousand RMB per month and the female students scramble to throw themselves at him, with there even being a female student willing to cohabitate with him and pay rent for him…
ReplyDeleteComments from Mop:
honlaywm:
Do we also have this kind of treatment when we go abroad?
fangyz9:
My older sister once met a black devil before, saying it was to learn English. That black devil was always calling. When my mother found out, my mother angrily called her a dirty whore, cheap, lousy prostitute. The two of them had a big fight and only in the end did my sister give give in, otherwise her being fucked and made dirty would’ve happened sooner or later.
做记号用:
A special Chinese characteristic, the whole world knows this.
匿名人士360829:
Stupid cunt laowai being played by women and patting themselves on the back for it.
lzuwt:
Just both getting what they want from each other. The men of the free world all carry the air of freedom, which is very attractive to Chinese women who have lost their values. Are you counting on laowaimen exercising moral self-control? You must be joking…
BH草莓味的奶茶:
Why do you have to talk about Shanghai women? I have a lot of sisters who despise those laowai.
匿名用户1046006078:
The problems of China are not all about the government and party! It seems that the entire people, every single Chinese person, you, me, him, are major problems! Can you say its not?
红色de肚兜:
China has a lot of these kind of women, and they should be called whores, because they are even worse than paid prostitutes.
扎势不如扎背杆儿:
Foreigners having large JJ is an indisputable fact, okay? If you’re not able to satisfy women, don’t blame women for finding others. Of course, foreign-worship also plays a very big part.
小六丶我对象:
The harsh reality is simply: The girls I like belong to others and the girls I don’t like also fucking belong to others.
巨奶星人:
It only shows that Chinese girls are really considerate of the next generation, as mixed-raced children have very big advantages.
红豆碎碎冰:
Hehe, calm down, Chinese men going to Vietnam, Laos, Myanmar also have this treatment.
aaa589632:
Too evil! We too must sleep with foreign women!
看那只猫:
Laugh.
Even if it is real, so what???
They’re doing their own thing. Bystanders gossiping just make people wonder just what motives these people have, putting their nose even into other people’s private lives.
Maybe they [Chinese women] think it is fun/exciting to play with laowai, so of course they would think they profited/benefited, but the laowai also feels they profited/benefited. So the two don’t owe each other, and it’s a win-win. River crab!!!!!~~~~~
Men operate in a fiercely competitive mating environment and value beauty above all other virtues. Evolution has taught men not to discriminate too much and to breed as much as possible.
ReplyDeleteAttractive women, on the other hand (because honestly you men don't care about the uglier 50%, and you're not complaining about their behavior pattern), are constantly being approached by men and must be selective to improve the quality of their offspring genetically (even if we use contraceptives, our subconscious motivations are related to baby-making). From -smell- women determine the distance between their immunity set and a man's, and they find the smell of brothers, fathers, and cousins to be unattractive and the smell of men genetically different from them to be attractive. So, in an evolutionary sense, women are conditioned to prefer foreigners. Many have noted that AFs don't go after hispanics or blacks, which is most likely a result of overall lower income levels and education levels. The same is not true for men, but black women get college degrees at a 2 to 1 ratio to black men (http://mjperry.blogspot.com/2009/12/black-women-outnumer-black-men-21-for.html), and for hispanic women, "In the last decade, college enrollment among Hispanic women increased by 70 percent, compared to 56 percent among Hispanic men, said Jacqueline King, the study's author" (http://articles.chicagotribune.com/2010-04-04/news/ct-met-latinos-college-20100316_1_hispanic-immigrants-latino-studies-chicana-and-chicano-studies).
A comparison of cultures:
Western - Independence and individualism
Asian - Group-based dependence and conformity
Which kind to do you think will have a higher chance of retaining attractive female members? Attractive AFs can enjoy a higher social standing and better treatment with western cultural values and norms, compared with the egalitarian treatment within Asian culture. It's not fair, but it is logical that they would prefer the system that benefits them the most.
It's mostly economics. Asian men (and all men really, compared with women) have a short supply of attractive, willing mates. Asian women have a large and diverse supply of attractive, willing mates, with genetic benefits for their offspring to choose outside their group.
We should be thinking of how to make Asian men more attractive to other groups of women, not how to keep Asian women from going out with other groups of men. Miscegenation is good for humankind. I'm a mixed female (Spanish, German, and Swedish heritage born in the USA), and I find men attractive or not based on their personal merits. Because of my preferences in education, there are not as many Hispanic- and African-American suitors for me (although I plan to travel a lot and may not end up with an American of any ethnicity). If there were two men of equal attractiveness, intelligence, and charisma, and one was American, and the other Asian-American, I would definitely date the Asian American. Also, I think Asian men (especially citizens of Asian countries) would not have the same expectations of me, a cultural outsider, than they would of AFs, so I wouldn't have to consider as strongly the cultural differences that would lead to lifestyle differences that AFs have to consider. Although I'm not so sure how much that plays a role within the United States compared with being in China, Japan, or Korea.
Ugh, this has turned into a rant. Basically, everyone is trying to get the most attractive person with the best personality that they can manage. Can you really fault AFs for that?
You seem to have confused Nature with your own racist fuckwit small dick philosophy. Sorry to burst your bubble but nature isn't racist and neither you nor nature has much to say about who their kids find attractive.
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